pragmatic and positive influence

Youngins:

Love your ‘rents. They may not be the perfect pair given to us, or we could have made a wrong choice, but still, they are our parents. We should be grateful for their presence, for what they have sacrificed. Maybe there were times we forgot, or we were not aware of what they’ve done for us. Some of us don’t even care, which is the worst in my opinion. I am not here to judge you with the gravity of my words if they happen to be against you, but I really mean what I say.

Before you start making faces and pointing out others’ ‘mistakes’, why don’t you look at your very own shortcomings. Let’s see who’s missing out a lot. Have you ever put down your pride to say sorry before they ask for your apology even if it was your fault? Have you realized that it was a grave mistake to literally close the door while your parent is still talking to you? And what really ticks me off is that there was no guilt on your part. (Tamaan na kung sino ang tatamaan, ok?)

I am not a perfect daughter, not even what they desired me to be, but I could go on telling everyone that I am proud of them. But with my imperfections, I am fully aware that I have no pretentions or whatsoever. My parents are my friends. I know I’m not 100% of the two of them combined, I’m really stupid when it comes to Math, but you’d see the stubborness and appeal plus some other traits I got from my mom, and being a jolly good fellow like my dad. It’s just that the degree of manifestations are somewhat different. 

So to those people who don’t value their parents, GDIAF. I wish that if ever the time comes you become parents too, you’ll be able to experience what it’s like to be ignored by your kids. 

Related to parent-child relationship stuff, I just recently appreciated the drama Ninkyo Helper to the extent of pimping it now. XD At first, I watched it for the smasher that is Kuroki Meisa and because I am a Ya3 fan, Yabu’s part of the cast, there ‘y go. My bad for not expecting too much from it, but you see, it’s the best drama so far this season. As I speak, the sixth episode was just aired last Thursday, and I haven’t downloaded it yet. The episode I like best atm is the fifth one. The lead character gets unexpectedly reunited with the mother who abandoned him 28 years ago. It was a really moving episode that I could’ve cried if I were watching alone. I know that it’s a tough situation, but with understanding and forgiveness things will work out fine. You definitely have to check out the drama if you have time or if your connection permits you. Hahahaha. I’m looking forward for more!

Through this drama, there were some things too that I realized. In real life, I can totally relate to the helpers, especially with the main character. Sometimes, he gets annoyed and irritated with his work, but he gets to realize important things.I know that I’m not patient enough, and I’m quite short-tempered, but somehow, learning through watching the drama was nice. Note: KNOW THE KIND OF SHOW THAT WILL INFLUENCE YOU POSITIVELY. Hindi yung puro halikan!

I think it was post-worthy since we all have to pause for awhile and realize that our parents are real treasures.